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- Mon Nov 12, 2018 2:41 am
- Forum: Friendships
- Topic: I found out one of my friends was an abusive boyfriend?
- Replies: 0
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So my friend and his ex were together for awhile and I was good friends with both of them. Although they broke up almost a year ago, I just recently found out how horribly he treated her (sexual abuse and verbal abuse) but I’m not allowed to talk to him about it because I was never supposed to know....
Confront them. Only way they’ll stop is if they’ve been called out on it and realize their lies don’t go unnoticed. Trust me, it feels good once you do. (Just recently confronted a friend on their bullshit and it really opened their eyes on what they’ve been doing wrong)
Ask what’s wrong with your friendship and if it’s worth saving, figure out what you can both do to fix it. If she still doesn’t answer, she’s not worth your time. Don’t put effort in to someone who doesn’t put the same effort back on you. That’s unfair to you and only hurts you in the end.